My hubby left on a 2 week boat DET yesterday and I actually miss him...whodathunkit! It's amazing what CHANGE can do to you. I've been altering the way I think and the things I say. Your words are so powerful and simply changing "I can't stand my husband" to "I am in the process of creating a purposeful and loving relationship with my husband that is built on trust, honesty, communication, and loyalty. We will NOT get a divorce!" has made such an improvement in our lives. Everything you say essentially "is" and I want and have an amazing purpose filled family and life.